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Please read if you are thinking of getting a pet duck

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  1. Pastordot
    Member

    When I read the following it broke my heart, especially as I see the beautiful white pekin duck that has recently been 'dropped off' at the lake across the street from my house.

    There are several different other ducks (blue swedish and others) on the lake that come frequently to my house along with the wild mallards for food that I put out. This lovely new duck comes over now too, and is friendly but extremely wary of the others and very skitterish and tending to keep to herself- not mingling with the other ducks. The larger ducks bully her and the mallards crowd her out for the food. I try my best to see that she gets some before they push her away.

    I am sharing this because as adorable as ducks can be, they are really a lot of work, and are extremely messy. Sometimes people don't realize this and after they are bigger, think it a good idea to let them go with other ducks in the wild. The truth is that it is a really rough world out there with many predators and unfortunately other ducks can be really cruel to each other. I have seen some really nasty things go on with them, and it breaks my heart.

    Sincerely,
    Dottie

    ******************************************
    Postcard from your duck:

    Dear Mom and Dad,
    This is your duck, I just wanted to send you an update since I last saw you. Remember that day you said it was time for me to be grown up and you took me to the really safe neighborhood and left me? I remember when you drove away from that strange place waving from the car, I chased after you but my legs just weren't fast enough.

    I was so scared but I want to show you how good I am so you'll want to come visit me. I keep thinking I have done something wrong but I know your just really busy. I am really learning a lot so hopefully I can come home soon.

    Well, my first lesson as a grown up was that all dogs aren't nice. I know our dog at home was always around so I thought I could trust this one too. I soon learned a lesson in what pain was and I thought I knew was being scared was but boy I was wrong. I learned if you stick your neck out to help someone it just might get cut off, or in my case just lose all its skin and some bones too.

    I am tough though mom and dad. I don't want you to worry about me. I am a good duck, if you come back for me I promise to always be a good duck. I was hurting pretty bad but I hid from everyone. I knew you were coming back for me. I waited for three days bleeding and in pain and I am not sure why you haven't come back. I haven't gotten to eat either, but I am a good duck. When I go home with you I wont be any trouble I promise.

    Its day 4 Mom and dad I tried. I did the best I could but I couldn't hold out any longer. The other ducks chased me away and I passed out from pain and starvation. I woke up in the hospital and I struggled to get back to you. I told the lady my mom is coming back for me, she promised to visit every day and feed me and take care of me. Just sending this note in case you come back and cant find me.

    I sure miss you mom and dad but I think I am safe now and it sure feels good to be loved. (whatever was in that pill helped a lot too! )
    Sincerely, Your Pekin
    By: Jennifer Gordon

    Posted 1 year ago #
  2. Pastordot
    Member

    Thank you Lorna for this. I get choked up every time I read it, because it is so very, very true.

    Posted 1 year ago #
  3. Lorna
    Member

    Dottie
    Thanks for posting this, you have summed it up so well in your own explanation at the beginning.

    Lorna

    Posted 1 year ago #
  4. campbell ridge
    Administrator

    Very evocative piece and a great message to all who aspire to own a duck.
    I will re-post this on live ducks on facebook.
    Sarah

    Sarah L
    Posted 1 year ago #
  5. Mama
    Member

    Very sad , but am very sure those who need to listen will not. Toys are for christmas just like puppies or kittens NOT . Dottie and Lorna , you are mums in a million and think we all share that on here too . Mama

    Goose Girl
    Posted 1 year ago #
  6. this moved me to when lorna first posted it on facebook, people see cute little ducklings and think I WANT, without realising all that dottie says and more that goes into loveing and careing for ducks and other birds x

    and sorry Mama even some on here have done the same

    mo x
    Posted 1 year ago #
  7. dollydylo
    Member

    That's really sad - you can almost see the duck and feel what it is thinking! Thank goodness our ducks and hens won't experience that rejection
    xx

    Karen x
    Posted 1 year ago #
  8. Jz_8889
    Member

    This is really sad, but it's reminds me of the day i went to the park/duck pond a few years back and i saw a man in a white car toss out a beautiful white pekin duck, for a few seconds it just stood in shock as the car drived away then in a flurry of feathers it started to chase the car but stopped right in the middle of the late afternoon traffic. Anyway i decided to help this poor creature and picked the cute little girl up and carried her to the waters edge to see if she would interact with others of her species but instead she put up a struggle to follow the now long gone car of her former owners. My heart broke into pieces as I observed this and after a beg of "your the best" and "please's" I finally got my mum to cave and allow me to take home the now named 'Jemima' (after the famous puddle duck from the Beatrix Potter stories). After a few days of living in our back yard we decided the best thing for you would be to take you to our local duck and other birds carer center where she now lives happily :)

    Julia x
    Posted 1 year ago #
  9. pinkpoultry
    Member

    It makes me cry every time I read it. Im going to have to stop. My ducks wont ever feel like this, and neither will anyone elses near me, since I shall take them in!
    My fella rang me this morning and said "guess what I have just seen! A wild mallard with 13 ducklings toddling accross the lane" awww. Made me smile again.

    Posted 1 year ago #
  10. quacking minx
    Member

    how awful I read it and went into tears and went outside to look at all my duckies as I walked up to them I slipped in duck poo it made me smile (even if it did nearly break my neck)

    how can anyone be so awful ............ a pet is a pet in my eyes any animals you get are yours forever we would never get rid of any of our animals (we just build more houses for them hehe)

    I'm glad everyone on here cares a lot for there lovely fluffy and sometimes huffy friends (lil moody trevor the hedgehog or our broody girls) but we love them all the same

    Posted 1 year ago #
  11. Jz_8889
    Member

    I agree with you quacking minx, pets are pets and you should love them and care for them no matter what. I love my beautiful pets (Kasey my crazy rotty, Zygo, Zanthy and Harriet my pretty Button quails, Logo my slimy eel and everything else......) This is a beautiful story, does anyone know who wrote this story?

    Julia x
    Posted 1 year ago #
  12. pinkpoultry
    Member

    It was on the bottom of the story, check out "Live Ducks" on facebook and its on the bottom of there. x

    Posted 1 year ago #
  13. pinkpoultry
    Member

    oh its there above-Jennifer Gordon. DOH!

    Posted 1 year ago #
  14. Very heart wrenching story and thanks Jz_8889 for sharing your story too! And I agree with Mo, its so true when people see ducks or even any other animals for that case and see how cute they are, straight away they want want want without realising the hard work.
    I think anyone who is thinking of getting ducks (or any other animals) should visit a local farm and see exactly what they had to do and what the daily chores are and also pitch in themselves for a day and see if they are truly ready to look after them.

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    Posted 1 year ago #
  15. Jz_8889
    Member

    Thank you Munise786 :) I agree with you, I thought having quails was going to be easy, well was i in for a shock! They need a lot of care, but i have to say it's worth it!

    Julia x
    Posted 1 year ago #
  16. Lorna
    Member

    I was wondering if this dumping of unwanted ducks is more a problem in the USA than the UK? We love our animals here and are devastated if anything happens to them.

    Lorna

    Posted 1 year ago #
  17. quacking minx
    Member

    ^^ very good point there but it may seem a lot worse as the country is a lot bigger :) I tend to only see mallards in our ponds lakes etc around us or the odd one who is a mallard with strange markings (I guess they are like the ducks daffy has but then fly off)

    but no real pet looking ones

    but I know a lot of animals get miss treated we had a neighbour threw his dead rabbit over our fence into our garden which was nice of him so we phoned RSPCA and told them they sent police round makes me sick though as they can still have pets grrr I hear they have a dog now I so hope that aint the next over :(

    Posted 1 year ago #
  18. Lorna i'm guessing most in the States and will stick my neck out and say it follows the fashion of keeping ducks as indoor pets then realising the mess involved, nappies or no nappies, and think micro pigs will suffer the same fate as they are the 'IN' pet at the moment x

    mo x
    Posted 1 year ago #

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